
GRAMMAR
〜たいばかりに
just because one wants to
Explanation
NOTE
〜たいばかりに means just because one wanted to — used when a strong desire drives someone to take an extreme or regrettable action.
痩せたいばかりに、無理な食事制限をした。
Just because I wanted to lose weight, I went on an unreasonable diet.
The result clause often expresses a **negative consequence** or extreme behavior driven by the desire.
NOTE
The nuance carries a tone of regret, criticism, or surprise — the speaker's desire was so overwhelming that it led to an extreme action.
NOTE
Attach たいばかりに to a verb by replacing the ます of the masu-stem (会います → 会いたいばかりに).
STRUCTURE
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たいばかりに有名になりたいばかりに、うその話をしました。
Yūmei ni naritai bakari ni, uso no hanashi o shimashita.
Just because I wanted to become famous, I told a lie.
彼女に会いたいばかりに、遠い場所まで行きました。
Kanojo ni aitai bakari ni, tōi basho made ikimashita.
Just because I wanted to meet her, I went all the way to a faraway place.
車が買いたいばかりに、毎日残業をしています。
Kuruma ga kaitai bakari ni, mainichi zangyō o shite imasu.
Just because I want to buy a car, I am working overtime every day.
彼に会いたいばかりに、仕事を休んでしまった。
Kare ni aitai bakari ni, shigoto wo yasunde shimatta.
Just because I wanted to see him, I ended up skipping work.
有名になりたいばかりに、嘘をついた。
Yuumei ni naritai bakari ni, uso wo tsuita.
Just because he wanted to be famous, he told a lie.
試験に合格したいばかりに、カンニングをした。
Shiken ni goukaku shitai bakari ni, kanningu wo shita.
Just because he wanted to pass the exam, he cheated.
Practice exercises
1
勝ちたいばかりに、頑張っているものだから。
Just because I want to win, I'm working hard, you see.
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2
人を助けたいばかりに、無理をしてしまうことだから。
Just because I want to help people, I end up overdoing it, which is typical of me.
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3
目立ちたいばかりに、嘘を言ったあげく、後悔した。
Just because I wanted to stand out, I told a lie, and in the end, regretted it.
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4
彼の実力を認めさせたいばかりに、必死に努力した。
Just because I wanted to make him recognize my ability, I worked desperately hard.
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5
その秘密を守りたいばかりに、不正に対して沈黙した。
Just because I wanted to protect that secret, I remained silent about the injustice.
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